Does the cover matter?

Every single person who has had the fortune of going to a decent school must have been taught (in different language and context of course) that one should never judge a book by its cover. Fact that the exterior doesn’t always represent the interior is the basic premise behind the adage.

Apart from few people who actually read books because they have pretty covers, this saying doesn’t involve books at all. More so importantly it is about people. The cover here symbolises the exterior, the looks of a person and the content of the book, a metaphor for the personality of the person. How much are we influenced by how a person’s looks while making a judgement on them? For pretentious snobs who claim they don’t judge other people, I would say this article is not meant for sublime humanoids who are beyond the humane follies. For others the question persists, how much importance the cover hold when we no longer talk about books?
Living in a world, bombarded by pictures of false perfection, do we put too much judgement on some factors which a person rarely has control? This thought has been generated by a rather unfortunate incident in which I chickened out of a situation just because the other person involved was not that much of a looker (actually it is much more sinister but hardly writable). The fact that I never gave the contents any chance doesn’t make me a very good person. Can it be that when it comes to the matters of the heart, looks are the most important thing and personality something second in line? Is it a person’s fault he/she does not look very good? Yes a person does have some control over the appearance but save plastic surgery I don’t see any drastic steps that can make anyone look significantly better than what they are.

memory

I remember a famous dialog from some random movie in which an old lady advices her son "Son don't make money, make memories". The thought is really nice but when do we realise that we are making memories? What separates the mundane life from the future memories?
We will never know what we will remember and what we will forget, we can never anticipate the magnitude of the event just by itself when it happens. So can we say that memories are cannot be created on purpose? If i say I want to remember this day forever can i do that?
In a life full of dynamics, do we actually know that we are living the time of our lives?

vacation plans

vacation plans
1 more week to vacation!.where will I spent my Chrismas day this year!

Recalling about the nostalgic holidays I had last year. I am certain that it had leave a great impact in me. Maybe all the things that was done last year had no planning. It just came naturally and goes well. Since the holidays are approaching. I shall do some sort of planning way in advance. Let me list down the things.

Happy Halloween

As I got too old to go trick or treating my interests turned to decorating our yard and house for the season.Today I’m putting the finishing touches on my yard display. A display that will encompass some of my favorite icons of Halloween.

Happy Halloween!

Euthanasia

Euthanasia is one of society's most widely and hotly debated moral issues. It
has pained and exhausted the courts for entirely too long, questioning the
ethics and morality of the issue. It is a never-ending loop that by no means
considers our right, or the victim's right, to freedom.
I believe that euthanasia is only debated and kept on the political agenda to
keep the courts busy, thereby ensuring the security of political pocket books.
The vast majority of the population is in favor of euthanasia. However, their
elected candidates don't represent their views. Thus eliminating
their power of democracy and right to freedom.

emotional

I think im getting way too emotional recently.
maybe alot of things happen and I really couldnt take it anymore.
even abit of mistrust i feel like crying and negative thoughts will come along..
especially towards ppls im close with.
just like that night.
this really sadden me alot but there's really no one who can understand me that well.
I think I've been acting real well. dont know is a gd or bad thing right..
now then I realised how well he understands me more than my buddies.
hai..
nvm I must not be so demanding. I also nv make effort to understand ppl why shld ppl understand me right. I just do whatever i can help and other things just pretend and act my role well will do.
anw I did it again..
after so so so long..
sorry I cant help but alot of thoughts cause my curiosity..

Recall the Past

Remember the past, are you happy or not?
When you remember the past, is there some smile on your face or not. The childhood in your mind is usually different from the truth. Exaggerate the good or twist the bad. When you remember the past, you often recall the happy thing or the sad thing?

Hatred

I used to ask my friend a question, what is the antonym of love? And my friend didn't hesitate and answered - Hate. I think it is true that most people will get the same answers as my friend did. However, are love and hate really opposite structures? In my opinion, if you truly loves someone else, that you could never hate the other person. People tell me that you must first love something in order to hate it. I do not believe this is true. I hate things that I never loved. I believe that if you love someone, then hate them later, you never really loved them in the first place. In our journey of life, you may be hurt or betrayed by someone, but if you truly love someone, truly love them, at the end you still forgive all his mistakes and want to see him have a happy life.Your feelings for that person can never fade or change because true love lasts forever. We can not define the explanation of hate . Hate a person must be have some conditions such as has he bullied you? insulted you? molested you? Therefore, I advise you not to hate a person easily. Hate is a very painful feeling.it will consume a lot of our time, energy and emotion. On the other hand, I think hate is not the negative thing. In fact, many people living on the margins between love and hate, they don't have the courage to pursuit of love or express their hate emotion. Those people who afraid of accepting love or hate are wasting their live in the vain. Since we are lucky to come into this world as human beings , God give us the precious gift - emotions, we have the right to choose or face whether we love or hate, why should we escape our own feelings ? Why should we hide our real emotions? If you ask me what is my definition, to me the main origin of hate is ignorance and incomprehension. Feelings are a burden to the human race but also a gift that we have to fight against and for. Somehow it would not take much for hate to actually become LOVE. I think I hate as an illusion and all it takes to truly see, is a look in the mirror and a leap of faith. That is my answer!

Cute Art Work

Vegetables and Fruits to good use

Wow I am really amazed at those pictures that I am going to show! I hope I can do something like that too! The chefs uses vegetables and fruits to make them into animals and they really look like the real thing! Let's take a break and look at how the creative peoples' art work.

Bad Mood....

my computer and printer are having affair. adultery!!

first, the printer broke down, now my desktop play me out by not allowing me to surf properly, damn those virus.

alarm clock dead. hands are not moving despite changing a new heart for it.

TSK……………

the school environment/ air density is too high! causing my eyelids to feel heavy and my brain under pressure until i cant process my thinking.

WEIGHTY?

Try... Holding the books for 15 mins !!

How were U feel ??

Of coz you will drop all the books on the floor !!

That's normal...

When the thoughts within you are getting too WEIGHTY !!

You won't feel good too, so it's better to let go off them !!

We should let go of the past and GRAb all opportunities in the FUTURE !!

But good to hear you feeling better le.. one must learn when to let go...

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Funny Everyday

What will you do if you have a twin ??

Ans: Should keep and use for parts...

Tired

All of sudden, I felt very tired of everything and didn't want to do anything. Even I'd like to sleep for ever. Facing to the real world and shouldering motionless stress, I was about to give up. But I can't.

　　I chose the road now and I must keep moving forward whatever difficulies I met and will meet. Sometimes I really need a person along with me but I can't.

　　I won't complain anybody except me however it didn't work. It is vain and blank so I won't do it. What a mess my mind is now! Forget it!

LOVE

What is love? It is one of the most difficult questions for the human to answer; no one can give the correct definition of love at all. We establish relationships with many types of people. Such as our family members, neighbors, co-workers, friends, spouses, etc. we have been taught that the love is different depending on who we are love. Love is not just sweet words, giving a hug, holding a hand, a caress, or sexual expression. All of those things are just the picture on the surface of love. But in fact, the real love is the underneath of those things that we can not see but we can feel. Such as share your joy and sorrow, understand each other, provide space to each other, but always be there for each others need. For me, I think the greatest love in the world is the relationship between parents and child. They love us unconditionally and it can not be measured at all. We use the whole life to learn and experience it. From the among those people that appear in our life, walk past our life, some are to teach us, some to comfort us, some to hurt and some to love. When we finally get our own happiness, we will understand the precious sadness is kind of treasure, which makes us better and stronger than before. I hope that people can be sharing their love to each other and forgiving each other who making misstate on the love, because no one is perfect in the world. I believe that with the existence of love, it makes our world looks more colorful and wonderful. Do you agree with me?