Hatred

I used to ask my friend a question, what is the antonym of love? And my friend didn't hesitate and answered - Hate. I think it is true that most people will get the same answers as my friend did. However, are love and hate really opposite structures? In my opinion, if you truly loves someone else, that you could never hate the other person. People tell me that you must first love something in order to hate it. I do not believe this is true. I hate things that I never loved. I believe that if you love someone, then hate them later, you never really loved them in the first place. In our journey of life, you may be hurt or betrayed by someone, but if you truly love someone, truly love them, at the end you still forgive all his mistakes and want to see him have a happy life.Your feelings for that person can never fade or change because true love lasts forever. We can not define the explanation of hate . Hate a person must be have some conditions such as has he bullied you? insulted you? molested you? Therefore, I advise you not to hate a person easily. Hate is a very painful feeling.it will consume a lot of our time, energy and emotion. On the other hand, I think hate is not the negative thing. In fact, many people living on the margins between love and hate, they don't have the courage to pursuit of love or express their hate emotion. Those people who afraid of accepting love or hate are wasting their live in the vain. Since we are lucky to come into this world as human beings , God give us the precious gift - emotions, we have the right to choose or face whether we love or hate, why should we escape our own feelings ? Why should we hide our real emotions? If you ask me what is my definition, to me the main origin of hate is ignorance and incomprehension. Feelings are a burden to the human race but also a gift that we have to fight against and for. Somehow it would not take much for hate to actually become LOVE. I think I hate as an illusion and all it takes to truly see, is a look in the mirror and a leap of faith. That is my answer!